So a few nights ago my instant messenger box pops up. It was from a different guy than before. I had given my messenger address to that one guy who wanted to cam, and this one who im'd me. This guy and I had been chatting, and he seemed nice enough. Then all of a sudden during one of our conversations he just stopped chatting and disappeared. That was fine with me. So here he is im'ing me again. I was polite. I asked him how he was and so on. Then I asked him why all of a sudden out of the blue he stopped communicating with me. He proceeds to tell me that he didn't. He said it was me. Well, it wasn't me. I let him know it wasn't me. Then he just all of a sudden asks me if I want to cam with him. Uh huh.....the dirty dog! I tell him I am not into the whole webcam thing, and I declined. That's when he says, we can just talk, no sex......Bahahaha!!! I am thinking maybe it is me. Is this what dating has come to, and I am just old school.... Why even bother calling it dating. You meet someone online, then meet them on the webcam, and do the deed with him via webcam.... I find no excitement in that whatsoever! Ummm......Yeah, this is bothering me. And, then I heard the other day that some guy on the Christian site was accused of rape! So where do good women go to find a decent man? I think decent men just don't exist these days.... If you're not a barbie doll type, you don't make the cut! That's for real.... So that guy stopped corresponding when I refused to cam with him. Another one (well possibility of one) bites the dust!