So he and I decided to part ways for good this time. For me it's a very unhealthy relationship. Sometimes loving someone too much is not enough. So, I gave him my word that I would not contact him again, and I meant it........ I had prayed and handed everything over to God, and I meant it..... It was out of my control now. So last night was very restless for me as I am still sick, and running a fever. So after tossing and turning I got up, and got my laptop, and booted up for a long night ahead. It was actually the wee hours of the morning at this time. So no more than I had signed on to my messenger I received an instant message from him. It said, hey baby you there?? I was still fuzzy, and looked again. The picture on his messenger was not his picture. It was a woman's body..... Not showing her face, but below the neck down, and she had her legs pulled up to her. She was in a skin tight dress, and stiletto heals. Underneath it had something like having fun, and her name was Gabby. So, I asked if it was him, and she says 24/female, you? I said I was a very close friend of his. She came back with I'm sorry, I forget what I am doing sometimes. At this point I figured he had been hacked. I had received an email from him last week, and we had discussed it. I deleted the email, and never brought it up again. A couple of years ago we had this happen as well, but it was someone soliciting for their weightloss product. He did some virus/add-a-ware scans, changed passwords, and we didn't have any problems with it until now. So I told this person I knew she had hacked his messenger, and I had reported her. I then texted him with the specifics. Of course I didn't hear anything from him. I'm sure he thought it was trumped up just to talk to him. But quite frankly.......since I prayed about all of this I haven't been anxious, or anything like that about him. What did bother me is that he was not concerned at all about being hacked, and this hoochie mama contacting decent people. I don't want someone contacting me under his name. The hurt and pain is there from this final breakup has been tough enough. I just don't need to deal with this. Out of respect to me I thought he would apologize and let me know that he was taking care of it, but no.......I've heard nothing, and I am sure not going to contact him anymore. So..... I think it's safe to say that I am a little over last night. No tears........ He lost the best thing he ever had! It's over just like that!